Lord Buddha had said “There is no revenge as complete as forgiveness” . This is the only way to retain our peace.
forgiveness is a gift of God. By forgiving, The poison of revenge dries up.
Forgiveness and revenge can’t coexist. If we sow the seeds of love, we will have a tree of love with abundance of compassion, charm and fragrance. If we sow thorny buses, we should never hope to pluck bundles of grapes from there.
Ego is the hindrance in the way to forgive and forget. No relief is possible. It is the ego which is afire. The fire of ego burns the egoist.
The span of human life is so short that we cannot afford to waste time and life in such trifles. Get over the bad habit.